As your vibration rises, it becomes challenging to coexist with people who hold lower vibrations. It’s important to tend to the broken and wounded aspects of ourselves so that we can live our highest potential.
Unfortunately, many powerful women are held back from achieving their dreams because they hold onto relationships that no longer serve them. They’re focused on “doing” and neglect their need for love, space, time, and freedom.
Letting go of what no longer serves you can be challenging. It’s often because
you are hooked into the emotional game of disappointment and unmet expectations.
Let me paint the picture…
You have a relationship with someone (an employee, a spouse, a friend, a family member, a client, etc) that continues to trigger you because they don’t meet your expectations.
You are unhappy with the relationship and because you are an action taker…
- You pick up the slack for them.
- You try to help the person.
- You might even ask them to get professional help
Yet nothing changes.
Years go by and you continue to tolerate a mediocre and low vibrational relationship expecting the other person to change. Even worse, you continue to get triggered and waste energy in resentment, anger and disappointment.
Then things seem to get better but it’s only a matter of time until the pattern shows up again.
Meanwhile…
- Your kids are learning that it is ok to not receive unconditional love.
- Your employees get away with not giving their best.
- Family members continue to be disrespectful.
Do you see that you are a slave to these relationships?
And that you have enslaved yourself in the name of…
“Love”
“Making it work”
“Not wanting to be a failure”
“What other people will think”
Your emotional hooks put you in the low vibrational state of a martyr, creating a glass wall between you and your dreams.
It’s time to stop suffering and sacrificing. It’s time to take the leap!
To help you with this process, I’m sharing a powerful journaling exercise with you:
- How long you’ve been trying to beat a dead horse?
- What is it costing you? (Money spent or not made, time, unhappiness, your health, wellbeing, not going for your dreams, your kids’ happiness, the growth of your business, etc)
- Who else is a “victim” of this relationship and how is it showing up in their life?
- What excuse are you using to stay in the relationship?
- What does your heart know to be the truth about that excuse?
- What qualities in you attracted this person?
Now that you have made an honest assessment, I’ll let you into the real secret to taking the leap…
It’s not the other person that needs to change.
You need to change. You need to become the person that is a vibrational match to your dreams.
Take a close look at yourself and let go of blame. Disappointment, failure, and unmet expectations keep you small. The greatest relationships, work opportunities, and your most magical life come from taking risks.
Trust that the Divine supports you.
I know what it’s like to be at the edge of the cliff, wanting to jump off in the hopes of catching something more fulfilling and yet, being scared because there seems to be no safety net and no plan.
I have a pretty long track record of choosing courage instead of settling. What I’ve manifested over the years reminds me of how powerful we are as women…
Choosing happiness gave me the courage to leave a dysfunctional marriage to then find a love that I didn’t even imagine was possible.
Trust is what gave me the strength to drop a successful career as an architect to find a line of work that gives me joy and a higher purpose.
Believing I am guided by the Divine powered me to move across the world to find a place to live that supports my vibration.
Being coached at the highest level helped me upgrade my clientele to serve trailblazer women at the top of their industries.
I am sharing this with you because we are in the same boat.
We are all being called to let go of the 3D matrix of dysfunctional relationships based in fear, control, resentment and life-long unmet expectations.
You cannot ride the higher frequencies of love, joy, prosperity, harmony and freedom when you are investing your time and energy in the old and the broken.
Is it painful to let go?
Only as much as you haven’t healed your woundedness.
Is it scary?
In the beginning it is, however, the more you trust; fear is replaced by love, magic and miracles.
Is it sad?
Only because you haven’t yet experienced pure unconditional love and joy.
There are many that will choose the 3D matrix, continuing to settle in low vibrations, struggling in an unfulfilled life.
And there are the Awakened Ones who are making bold moves every single day to become the best version of themselves.
What will you choose?
It’s time to stop passing down your woundedness and create a new healthy lineage.
The world needs you in that Divine Feminine Power, holding the vibrations of joy and unconditional love for yourself and for the planet.
